time has elapsed since our one healing session, for me to write
of it freely and authentically.
approach to our process was confident, competent and compassionate.
It was gentle while clearly directed. I refer to “our
process” because, though you were leading, I felt throughout
this healing that we were partners. You calmly yet firmly guided
me through each step. When I resisted the full experience of
my grief, you supported and encouraged me to and through that
was a shared journey through the pain of loss to relieved acceptance
and acknowledgment that though my daughter died tragically,
I can be at peace with the facts, the nostalgia, the love and
the realization of who I am at this moment.
can now reflect with tenderness upon her life, the events of
her passing and some imagined possibilities for her future
without retreating either to numbness or emotional crisis.
skill and adept handling of such a sensitive and difficult
experience is wonderful. I am deeply grateful for the way you
have changed my life.
Adrienne Garnett, NY
I deeply appreciated Robert's organizational
and trainer skills during our training in Arnprior. What a
devoted man! With Robert, you can be sure that everything will
flow properly. If you have a question, just ask Robert, as
he will carefully listen to you; he has this talent to make
you feel at ease. If he doesn't know the answer, be sure he
will look for it and will come back with it later!
addition, as a processor, Robert has a perfect tone of voice
and an outstanding presence that makes you feel
secure. If we could have more of this kind of man, the world
would be a very good place to be! If you have the chance to
work with Robert, you too, I am sure, will greatly appreciate
this human being.
was fascinating to experience Robert's empathetic and skilful guiding
of an Healing process.
had heard of Energetic Healing but never seen it in action.
After watching Robert work with someone else and
realizing how easy, non-invasive, comfortable and non-threatening
he made the process, and how subtly, indirectly and matter-of-factly
he guided clients, I agreed to try it on myself.
for the results, while I will always know that my parents
sabotaged something in my childhood, the lingering effects of
worked on, I do feel freed up from the restriction they laid
on me. In
short, I can now listen guiltlessly to people at other tables
or nearby and
actually hear what they say. Before the process, I would be completely
oblivious to what was going on around me, which left me feeling
touch, an outsider with no door to open.
Robert helped me unlock a long-closed switch.
worked with Robert over the phone at a point of crisis, scatterbrained
and in a panic. He was calming and effective, firm and caring.
His non-invasive approach allowed me to tune into many of my
intense -- previously experienced as overwhelming -- emotions
and to ride them out. He indeed served as the healing catalyst
which he advertised himself to be, yet, brilliantly, the process
involved no pushing or provoking (a surprise to me at the time).
a nutshell, Robert sat with me through the most intense experience
of co-dependency withdrawal, self-disgust, and desperation
I have ever experienced and lead me to resolve many of these
deep emotions. I slept well for days afterwards and will never
be afraid to be on my own nor feel alone again.
thank Robert for his confidence in me and his honest accompaniment.
have had the privilege of being in a peer support and healing
circle alongside Robert over the past year. During that time
he has consistently demonstrated his strength as a counselor,
mentor, healer, speaker and writer. Robert has shown unusual
clarity and patience in guiding others while supporting them
in setting and moving towards their own goals and objectives.
He has been perceptive, levelheaded and articulate in a simple,
relaxing manner. Above all, his approach has reflected a deep
commitment to honoring one's feelings in order to resolve them
I was very apprehensive to try this type of treatment over
the phone, I found Robert to be highly capable in many respects.
For instance, I found him extremely patient and firm with his
facilitation, yet remaining particularly flexible as new memories
and past events were linked to the present event we were working
guided me to what was most important to me instead of letting
any eagerness to explore new connections get in the way of
also created an environment of serenity and acceptance. For
instance, when I told him that I was distracted because I felt
I was using too much of his time, we explored that issue quickly
and moved right ahead from where we had stopped.
has an extensive array of tools backed by years of experience
that allows him to help others get a better understanding of
their lives and ways to move into their future with more complete
perspective of themselves and the world around them.
highly recommend him.
We met at the GRIP/Everyman 2006 Gathering
and just happened to share the
same workshop. As we had not met before, I had no idea what experience
you had to share with me.
During the workshop, I described a difficulty I had in discussing
topics, either my own or those of others. Many times I would
by emotion and be unable to continue. Because I often share discussions
with people in pain, this was a serious drawback for me.
With permission from the group and myself, you spent just a few
teaching me how I could manage my emotions and be able to continue.
very grateful, Robert, as those few moments still enable me to
Jacqueline (Jackie) Unitt